Monday, February 9, 2015

Parenthood: A Review of the Series



Last week this wonderful, emotional, heart felt series aired its final episode. So sad, but what a wonderful ride it was! Since I have a few thoughts, and just in case you've not watched it, I thought I'd do a post gushing its praises.

This series started back in 2010. I let two seasons go by before jumping on board. Not sure why. Maybe it's one of those times where I knew I would be hooked and I was just avoiding getting hooked to another show. Maybe it was because I couldn't picture Lauren Graham as anyone but Lorelei. I don't know. But one day, we watched the first episode, then binge watched the first two seasons. After that, it was watching it live (well actually I usually watched it online the day after it aired) every week.

The same people did this show as those who did Friday Night Lights. So, if you're familiar with that one you'll know that every episode is full of emotion and feelings and nearly every week you're left weepy eyed. Parenthood delivered this same type of stuff. Every week! I think because it deals with real stuff, ordinary stuff, everyday stuff, stuff we all have to deal with, or people we know deal with. Things like:
  • dating, both when you're young and when you're older
  • going to college
  • dealing with kid with a disability
  • getting old
  • getting married
  • having babies
  • infertility and adoption
  • affairs
  • inlaws
  • politics
  • all sorts of teenager issues
  • abortion
  • cancer
  • starting a business
  • following your dreams
  • relationships between siblings, parent and child (both little and grown), aunts and uncles and cousins, grandparent and grandchild, husband and wife, etc.
All the stories made you love the characters and hate them both! But still, you end up with favorites. I especially loved Max, Drew, Mr. Cyr, Crosby, Zeke, Sarah and Hank.

Here's Sarah with both Mr. Cyr and Hank.
I didn't like Hank at first, but he grew on me. 
The parents (and grandparents) of the whole crew.
Zeek was the heart of the show. 
 I really loved Crosby and felt everyone
treated him like crap most of the time.
This Max and Drew and Amber.
These kids all do an amazing acting job.

And, beware spoilers as I talk about the final episode, directed to those that have watched!

 I loved how they did this! I was hoping that the whole dying thing would not happen, but of course they had to do it after all. I loved the wedding and how Max took all the pictures and we got to see everyone together and in family groups. But I especially loved the flash forward several years into the future. Wasn't that nicely done? And from what I gather it looks like Julie and Joel stay together and end up having their own baby after all! Along with the new one they adopted. And Max graduates of course. All is well with him. Crosby's Lunchette gets going and they are pregnant again too. And Amber does gets married to someone else and has another baby but appears to have a good connection going with Ryan. Nice. Everyone seems to get their happy ending. Even Camille is visiting the special cafe in France. That's when I got pretty teary! 


Anyway, so if you haven't watched it and you are in the mood to binge on Netflix show... one about real life, then you know where to go!





Saturday, February 7, 2015

Life Lessons Learned from Grandpa

Here's me and my kids with Grandpa
just over ten years ago. We went on a hike
and he showed us a petroglyph that he just
happened to know about in the area.
I swear, he knew everything!
Today as you read this blog post, I'll be on my way to my grandpa's funeral and we'll spend all day traveling to and from and being with family. I spoke at my grandma's funeral (which was just over six months ago) but this time, my brother gets a turn! He asked us for memories of my grandpa, specifically things we learned from him. I decided to make a simple bullet list and I enjoyed those so much I felt the need to share.

So here's what I learned from my grandpa, who spent his whole life on and Idaho farm... except when he was driving truck all across the country, or serving in WWII, or seeing the world!
  • Work hard! The biggest thing I think about when I remember my grandpa, how hard he worked.
  • "Read any good books lately?" This is what he's always say to me. I learned that, yeah, it's okay to read a lot.
  • Take a nap if you need one. Word hard and rest hard!
  • Eat your crusts, it'll make your hair curly! (I never believed him, though I always did want curly hair!) 
  • If you see a road you've never been on before, take it and see where it leads. I think my grandpa knew and had driven on every road in the country. No joke.
  • Being quiet is not a weakness, it's a strength. My grandpa had such a presence about him, but he was a really quiet guy.
  • It's okay if the field burns up. It'll grow back greener the next year. There's a story behind this one. We were "helping" him burn weeds from the ditches and bam, it got out of control! Not sure who's fault it was, but it burned a whole field, then off through the sage brush, up and over and down a hill. The next summer, it was as green as good be.
  • The animals always need feedin'. And who are they going to count on if it's not you?
  • No matter how dirty you get, you can always get cleaned up and smellin' good. My grand got dirty, but he was the best smelling grandpa you'd ever met!
  • Laugh a lot. When I think of him, it's his laugh that always comes to mind. I loved it.
  • Steer clear of the cow pies. No explanation needed!

I could go on and on, but there's just a few things I'll remember about him. He was 94 years old and lived a long good life. We'll miss him, but we're happy he's moved on to the next phase. 

Friday, February 6, 2015

Getting to Know You: Celebrity Crushes


Jenni Elyse has started a new feature! She wants to get to know her bloggin' buddies better, so each week, on Thursday, there'll be a new category of  "getting to know you" stuff. Head on over and check it out!

First up is celebrity crushes. It's a topic I tend to enjoy, so I don't think any of my choices will be surprises to my regular readers. I wanted to "copy" Jenni and do a collage and ended up going with the 16 frame layout, so we can enjoy more pictures! You're all good with that, right?




Just in case you don't recognize them, from top to bottom, left to right, (and in no particular order of ranking!) we have:

Richard Armitage
Kyle Chandler
Tom Hiddleston
Andrew Garfield
Antonio Banderas
Cillian Murphy
David Tennant
Johnny Depp
Robert Downey Jr.
The Hemsworth Brothers: Liam and Chris
Hugh Jackman
Eddie Redmayne
Benedict Cumberbatch
Aidan Turner
Zachary Levi
Colin O'Donoghue

Anything you find in common after looking at their pictures all in one place? Hmmmm....interesting.

Who's on your list? Make a post and link up over at Jenni's! 

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Author Events Galore

This past month has been full of author events.  I thought I'd highlight them real quick like by sharing a few pictures.

Just a few days ago Courtney Alameda launched her debut book, Shutter. It's a YA ghost hunting horror story. I've just barely started it, but everyone says it's totally creepy.  Courtney is special to us because she has worked at the library in the past and was key to getting so many big name authors to visit here, including the beloved Markus Zusak. It was fun to support her as her own book was released.

Kami, Jenny, Jenni Elyse, Suey, Toto
and Courtney

Looking all cute in her zombie skirt.

Kami and Jenni getting their books signed.

Then last week we went to see Marissa Meyer for the launch of her latest book, Fairest. It's a novella, back story of the evil queen featured in Cinder, Scarlet and Cress. The final book in the series, Winter, will be released later this year I think. Anyway, she is one of my daughter's favorites so I made her do all the talking and interaction. Given all the author events I've hauled her to, you'd think it would be no big deal, but she was pretty star struck this time!

Toto and Suey with Marissa

The first week in January saw the release of Ignite, second in the Defy series by local author, Sara B. Larson. Off we went again! She had a fun presentation and we all did much giggling. Can't wait to jump into this latest book.

Toto, Suey, Sara, Jenni and Kami

Signing our book!

And finally, a Photoshop fun picture to share. With apologies to Sara, it was too perfect a picture not to mess with! You might be seeing more of these in the future since my daughter, Toto, is becoming quite the expert!

Hey! Look who was at the signing with us!
Tom Hiddleston himself!

This month we have a mass author signing as part of LTUE and later, Ransom Riggs and Tahereh Mafi. We'll see how things shake down!



Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Salt Lake Comic Con FanXperience 2015


This past weekend was a play hard, get your nerd on kind of weekend. And it was so much fun. Intense, exhausting and fun! And just in case you are into these kinds of things I thought I'd give my run down.

First of all, the thing about these comic cons is that there are several different sorts of things going on. I find that people usually fall into one or two of these categories. Here's how I see it breaking down:

** Cosplayers. Some people go to see and be seen. They dress up and they walk around hoping that lots of people want to take their picture. Or.. they walk around seeing how many pictures they take of other people's costumes. And let me just say. the costumes are amazing for the most part, and the walking around bit is in and of itself quite the show.

** Spenders. These people figure they've spent a ton just to get in, might as well keep on spending! For them, a big part of the experience is buying a ton of stuff in the vending area, the place were hundreds of booths are set up selling things from comic books, to tshirts, to swords, to paintings and posters, to all sorts of gizmos and gadgets. The things people will buy never seizes to amaze me.

** Face to Face Celebrity Time. If you buy a photo op or decide to get an autograph, you are in for another whole crazy experience. This means buying usually $100 more dollars then standing in line for your turn at the celebrity. But you walk away with an awesome picture and the feeling of having said celebrity's arm around your back! And if I understand right, you can also pay a smaller amount and just take a selfie with your own phone. Which sometimes means you by past the line, and might even get the arm around your back after all. Anyway, I'm a little jealous of the people who end up with pictures.

** Celebrity Q and A Panels: This being herded into a big huge room and seeing the celebrity come on stage and answer a ton of audience questions. While you don't get the arm around her back, and the up close look in their face, you do get a feeling for their real life personalities and enjoy lots and lots of laughs usually.

** Regular Panels: Going on throughout the whole event are tons and tons of presentations and panels and pretty much any nerdy topic you can think of. If a person doesn't want to fight the crowds so much and doesn't care about celebrities and feels they have spent as much money as they spend, then this is the part of the con they might enjoy best.

For us, this time, we decided to focus on the celebrity appearances and not worry so much about the panels and other things going on. Last time in September I felt like it was a good mix between the two, but this time... it was all celebrities... or nearly.

Lucifer from Supernatural
DAY ONE: Thursday

We started the day off straight away in the big ballroom to see Mark Pellegrino. He wasn't someone I knew from anything, but we really had to be in the room for Karen Gillan who came after him! But he was a lot of fun and very engaging with the audience. They love him as Lucifer from Supernatural. I really should know Supernatural, but I haven't made time to watch more than the first few episodes! Gasp! I know! He's also in Dexter and something else that I forgot at the moment. Oh! I remembered! Jacob on Lost of course!


My capture of Karen
on the Jumbotron!
Next up was Karen Gillan who recently got done with her gig as Amy Pond on Dr. Who. She was fabulous in that role and everyone just love her. So cute with her red hair, mini skirts and strong Scottish accent! She was also in Guardians of the Galaxy as Nebula. It was awesome to see her and hear her stories.

We actually left the big ball room to see a Star Wars panel after that. The speculated on what the new movie will be, which was kind of fun. They played the little teaser trailer, LOUD, and it gave me chills so bad! Gah, I can't wait to see what this movie ends up like!

Laurie aka. Andrea
Then back to the ballroom where we listened to Laurie Holden who plays (played!) Andrea on The
Walking Dead. SPOILER ALERT: She talked a lot about when their characters die how they go to a restaurant for a "dead party"  and everyone cries. It sounds like it's such a tight cast, which is sad when they never know when people will be killed off. She knew the day before. Can you even imagine? I was sad that the other two cast members from The Walking Dead (Glen and Beth) did not do a panel. They only did photo ops. Lame.

The last thing we went to that first day was a Marvel Universe Trivia game. We met up with Kami and her brother and they wanted to play! What? I was there just to watch! Anyway, it was fun to see the level of geek in that room and realize that the geekiness I think I have is NOTHING compared that!

(On the way home that evening, I got word that my grandpa, who had gotten really sick a few days before, was pretty much on his death bed.)

DAY TWO: Friday

Kami waiting in line. 
Toto waiting in line.
This second day was a big big day of celebrities for us! We had plans to camp out in the ballroom the entire 10 or so hours! We started the day off sitting on the floor, waiting in line, hoping they'd let us in. It didn't take long and pretty soon we were rushing to try and get seats as close to the front as we good. We didn't do too bad!



Great Scott!
First up was Christopher Lloyd of Back to the Future fame. He was funny, as you'd expect, but had a hard time understanding everyone's questions. He talked a lot about One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, which was a huge deal for him. He liked the third Back to the Future the best, since it was a western.

I tried really hard to get the smile.


Here's the smile!

We moved forward a few seats and Brandon Routh! Oh my
gosh, but he is cute! He played Superman in Superman Returns and was picked in part because of his uncanny resemblance to Christopher Reeve. But I know him currently from Arrow where he plays Ray Palmer and is about to embark on his adventures as The Atom. Anyway, the whole audience swooned whenever he broke into a smile. I was not the only one!
had an excellent view of the next dude,

Nichelle Nicholes
Nichelle Nichols, from the original Star Trek series was up next. How cool
to see such an icon from TV history! She's done a lot in her career and it was fun to learn about it all.

We stayed put for Felicia Day even though we really had no clue who she is! However, people POURED into that one screamed like crazy for her. She is dang popular! She is in Supernatural too, and did Dr. Horrible's Sing Along  Blog, and is in a lot of YouTube things. I can't remember what else. But she was fun!

We didn't want to leave the room, basically, because after her was Tom Felton and we knew he would be huge too! Yes, he's Draco
Tom Felton
Malfoy from Harry Potter! And what a cute, sweet, lovely (he used that word a lot!) person he was. Man, he's a good actor, yes? You think of him as just a slime and so conniving and sneery, but no, that's just his character after all! :) Funny how that happens! We loved his stories about Harry Potter, and learning that in fell in love in real life with a Griffendor extra and that his blond hair was died even blonder for all those years. He defends his character and feels he was redeemed in the end.

The Holding Pen!
Our line friends! They looked
totally authentic!
After that they kicked everyone out because it was time to get ready for the big Dr. Who Experience. This was the event that we had to pay extra for! And so we left and got shuffled into different lines according to what we paid, and what wrist band we had. I called it the holding pen. By the time we got out there, the line was already completely out of control, and it only got worse. We sat there for an hour and half, which wasn't that bad except that several times they made us think that we would move any second, only to let us stand there forever still! And after awhile, it got to be the time for them to start and we were still out there in line. I was thinking, they can't start until all these people get in there, right? Well, they finally let us in and it started just after that. And we screamed and screamed and screamed! So cool to see Matt Smith, the 11th Doctor, along with his companion, Karen Gillan also Billie Piper who played Rose, both the 9th and 10th Doctor's companion. They were awesome with their stories and their laid back-ness. It was worth the extra money. We filmed them a bit. We tried to upload it but it was too long. Stay tuned and perhaps I'll post that later when we figure it out!

You can't see him good,
but this was how
close we were.
When that was over, we moved closer for Ralph Macchio who was up next. My 18 year old self was DYING at the fact that the Karate Kid was RIGHT THERE! As cute as ever! The very same hugebrown eyes and amazing smile! He looks so good still! We came right home that weekend and watched Karate Kid... again for me, for the first time for my daughter. I was like... see what I mean? See how cute he his?? Lol! Now I want to watch The Outsiders again too. I hardly remember that movie.

The last panel of the day was Ray Park, and by this time we were
How can this guy be Darth Maul?
so close to the front! Go us! He played Darth Maul in Star Wars The Phantom Menace. And guess what? He was sweet and funny too! What's with the villains who are sweet and nice in real life??? :) We loved him and in fact, if we had to rank all the celebrities as to which ones were our favorites, he just might get the top spot. At the end, he had all (well, all the ones that ran up) the kids come up on stage with him and he shook their hands, learned their names and taught them a Darth Maul move. It was so awesome. He's a martial arts teachers and you could totally tell that he loves kids and
is so good with them.
Ray Park teaches kids
Darth Maul moves!

It was an exhausting day, but we had SO MUCH FUN!









DAY THREE: Saturday

Billie on the Jumbotron
We started the day out in line again, waiting to get back into the big ballroom. First up was Billie Piper, from Dr. Who, who had her own panel, like Karen did the other day. What a sweetie she is too, and seems so down to earth. We learned that she was a teenage pop star in Britain before she got the Dr. Who gig. We came home and looked her up. Eh, we didn't fall in love with her songs. But we sure love her as Rose!



Carrie Fisher on the Jumbotron!
Then they had a last minute surprise panel with Carrie Fisher! She wasn't going to do one because of her contract which doesn't allow her to talk about the new Star Wars at all! Boy they are freaking nervous about stuff leaking with regard to that movie! Anyway, she was only on the stage for a half hour and what a weird half hour that was. She is a DIVA in all sense of the word. A very strange duck. And she doesn't look at all like a certain character we know as Princess Leia. If you stare at her hard, you can kind of see it in her eyes. Just barely. Anyway, she hammed it up and joked around, had her dog come on stage with her, and pretty much didn't answer one question. But we all screamed and loved it just the same. I mean, hello. Princess Leia!

We didn't know where else to go and besides we wanted to keep our seats, so we stayed put for the next panel which was the Lannister twins from Game of Thrones. Okay, so that was a weird panel too. Yeah, even the panel was not great of young ears! What a twisted show this is, yes? I've only watched one episode and that was enough for me. Anyway, we squirmed until that one was over. I must say though, Jamie Lannister is very nice to look at. He's from Denmark by the way. :)

Paul on the Jumbotron
Paul Wesley and Pheobe Tonkin from The Vampire Diaries was next. It was hard to believe that Stefan was right there! I was so into that show. I haven't watched it for awhile now though. And the Pheobe girl, I didn't know her. I think she's on The Originals... a spin off, which I haven't watched but I should because it also stars Elijah! Too bad he wasn't there! But they were cute and fun too. Paul Wesley looks like what I pictured Edward (from Twilight) to look like in my head. Oh, well.

After that we were sort of lost as what to do. We actually left the ballroom and wandered around, shot some GoPro video and ate a piece of pizza. We wandered through celebrity row and stumbled into the line for the photo ops. And were busted! Boy they hustled us out there fast! Then, we found our way back to the ball room where we caught the end of the panel with Jim Cummings and other voice actors. They were awesome. The audience was rolling on the floor with laughter. We were tripped out at hearing the voice of Winnie the Pooh and Tigger come out his mouth! Great stuff!

The rest of the day was a little boring we wandered through a few random panels. Mostly we were just overwhelmingly tired and ready to come home! But we ended up listening to one about the movie industry. It turned out to be mostly about acting, but we were hoping to hear some about other aspects like editing, make up artists, cinematography etc. But oh, well. Then we went to one were we learned about the movie they are making for I am Not a Serial Killer. They hope to get that inot Sundance next year. I would love to go to it! Also, we went to one about the general art of stories, in all it's mediums. I'm fascinated with this, but the panel was, eh. And finally, we ended the day learning about the history of The Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland. Pretty interesting!

On the way home, I stopped off at my mom and dad's house and held my grandpa's hand for minute and said goodbye to him. He passed on Monday morning, so, I'm glad I made the effort, tired as I was, to see him one last time. Bittersweet stuff. It was time. But we'll miss him!

And then we came home and crashed! What a fun time Comic Con is! I can't wait to do it again! :)

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

North and South Read Along Final Discussion Answers


I posted questions the other day for the final section of our North and South read along.. .and promptly forgot that I was meant to actually answer the questions too! Yeah. It's been that kind of week!

So, here are my quick thoughts on those questions.


1.  There's much talk about all the deaths in this book. What are your feelings on that? Do you think they were necessary? Or too much?

They didn't bother me that much I suppose. I mean, it did seem hard and fast and crazy, but there was more time between them than it felt like to us the readers I think. I do think that some of the deaths were easy plot devices. But it worked for me for the most part.

2. Was there anything that happened during this last part that you found surprising or unexpected? Or was everything very predictable?

I can't remember what I felt like the first time I read this. Probably Mr. Bell's death. And Henry trying the wooing thing again. This time through I was just surprised at the differences between book and movie that I'd forgotten.

3. What are your feelings on the about face Margaret and Mr. Thornton have with regard to their financial status?


I thought it must have been hard for Mr. Thornton to have this happen. And very surprising for Margaret, especially after thinking just a short time before that it was all to be looked down on. I find the whole switcheroo fascinating.

4. Do you think Margaret is justified in being so anguished over the lie that she told? Does it mostly have to do with her feelings for Mr. Thornton? Or something else?

I think this may have been the first time she found herself in such a position and it felt so off and wrong to her. But I think she would have gotten over it fairly quickly if not for Mr. Thornton knowing all about it. That killed her and drove her crazy! If only she felt like she could go to him and explain things. If only.

5. At what moment exactly do you think her feelings for Mr. Thornton completely changed?

I think she totally realized where she stood when she was back in London and her relations were now saying the things that she had said the year (or two) before. And she wanted to defend him! And it hits her then how much she misses him and wants to be back where he's at. I think it was a slow growing thing, but it really hit her then.

6. Discuss the character of Nicholas Higgins. What do you think about the relationship he has with Mr. Thornton? Did he change Mr. Thornton? Did Mr. Thornton change him?

I love him so much! And to see the friendship develop between him and Mr. Thornton warms my heart. I love watching them come to an understanding with each other, and respect. I love that especially... the respect. 

7. How does Mr. Thornton's views on the master/worker relationship change? Or. . .did it change? Did your view on this issue change as you experienced this book?


I think he comes to understand that they are people too and important and needed. Not that he didn't really think that before, but it became so much more real and obvious after all that striking business and then getting to know Mr. Higgins and seeing the plight of the Boucher family. 

8. Do you have a favorite quote from this book? If so, share and let us know why it's your favorite.

“He is my first olive: let me make a face while I swallow it.” 

I just thought this was a perfect way to describe the feeling of getting used to the idea of something. It's not a profound quote, and I enjoyed many profound quotes found in this book, but it was fun one that made me smile. 


9. The ending! Are you happy with how things turned out? (Try not to compare with the movie here... that's for a later question!)

I was shocked, shocked I tell you, to read the ending and realize that was it! I did not remember this, even though I've read it before. I expected it to be more like the movie. The two things have totally meshed in my brain. That being said, I do find the situation still very romantic, with her shuffling through the papers and talking and talking and talking and him just saying... "Margaret.... Margaret... Margaret" until she stops, puts her face in her hands and leans on his shoulder and saying, "I'm unworthy!"  I still love that! 

10. What aspect of this book would you like to address that we haven't yet talked about? Is there something we've skipped over in our discussions that makes you want to say... "Yeah, but what about....?"  And if you've got nothing there, answer this: Did you like the book? Why or why not?

I love the book and will continue to love it, despite the fact that the movie has overshadowed it in beloved-ness. 

BONUS MOVIE QUESTION:

If you've already seen the movie, go ahead... now is your chance to compare the two! If you have yet to see the movie, skip everyone's comments on this part. After we watch the movie on Friday, you can write a post just about this. Because my guess is, you'll probably have some thoughts!

I love the movie for the swoony looks Richard Armitage masters, for the emotion contained on his face. I love the book for the fact that we can get in his head and know what he's thinking during those brooding looks. I love the movie for the changes and additions that make everything so much more romantic. I love the book for the thoughtful statement it makes on the life and times of the people during this period. I love the movie for the ending. I love the book for the story itself!

Sigh. What fun we've had. I think we must do it again! 

Monday, February 2, 2015

January 2015 Reading Recap

View out my backyard.
My mountain looks good in pink!

Wow, one month of 2015 down! How crazy is that? 

Here's what I read this month:

The Bishop's Wife by Mette Ivie Harrison: Linda, a Mormon bishop's wife, gets involved in a neighborhood mystery.

Joy Street by Laura Foley: The author shares snippets of her life in verse.

The Things You Kiss Goodbye by Leslie Connor: Bettina thinks she's found a perfect boyfriend, but then he changes and things are to the point where now and then she needs a place to escape, which ends up being the car shop next to the school where Cowboy works.

Splintered by A.G. Howard: A pretty fun and crazy retelling of Alice in Wonderland. Alyssa must go back to Wonderland to break the curse put on her great great grandma, Alice.

The Elite by Kiera Cass: America is still fighting to be The One for Prince Maxon in a Bachlorette type dystopian contest. 

North and South by Elizabeth Gaskell: Margaret moves from the laid back and peaceful south of England to the hardworking industrial north. There, she learns things about herself, her family, the general way of the world, and falls in love with the local cotton mill owner. 

Favorites of the month: North and South, The Things You Kiss Goodbye

Plans for February:

  • Finish Shutter.
  • Finish Half Bad.
  • Read both ignite books... Ignite AND Ignite Me.
  • Perhaps re-read For Darkness Shows the Start and Persuasion for book club.
  • Read Love, Lucas by Chantele Sedgewick
  • Hopefully get to Wonder and Life After Life, waiting on the nightstand!
I can't remember what else, but that's a good start, don't you think?

How did your reading month go?


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